You've found me, the mom of two small children. A few years ago, I figured out, this late in life, that I am Queer. I am looking to the future with hope and promise. Soon to be divorced, and living on my own with my kids. Life on my own terms at last!
July 25, 2009
Cold Shoulder
OK Peeps..it's been a long time, but I'm jammin on ARay tonight, and I have the most serious of crushes on her. It's like the magnet say's..."Dip Me In Honey, and Throw me to the Lesbians"!!!!!
yaaaaaaaaa i'm da first one! heehee evil grin. welcome to the new home blog! as for da nickname for the ex to be, how bout hubcap? i dont know where that came from but when i read your request, in my head it fit. its kinda cute, non demeaning yet still affectionate in an ex kind of way. haahaa you'll think of something... i'm sure. i like your new layout etc and da fishies you put on here... that website has so many widgets to choose from! can ya give us your first name or do ya still wanna be called OC? [or how bout "blu"?] it sounds like you are adjusting well, and in time all will fall into place. the main thing is you have done what you set out to do. i am very proud of you for following your heart and having the courage to walk through the pain it takes to do so. as for you and hubby, the love will always be there hon, it has just changed form. nothing important is black or white. you can create your own shade somewhere in the middle. well take care and enjoy your new freedom as you embark on yet another journey.
hugs,
chris
ps,
hey oc, i tried to post this on the new blu blog but it wouldnt take it. is there a glitch?
yaaaaaaaaa i'm da first one! heehee evil grin.
ReplyDeletewelcome to the new home blog! as for da nickname for the ex to be, how bout hubcap? i dont know where that came from but when i read your request, in my head it fit. its kinda cute, non demeaning yet still affectionate in an ex kind of way. haahaa you'll think of something... i'm sure. i like your new layout etc and da fishies you put on here... that website has so many widgets to choose from!
can ya give us your first name or do ya still wanna be called OC? [or how bout "blu"?] it sounds like you are adjusting well, and in time all will fall into place. the main thing is you have done what you set out to do.
i am very proud of you for following your heart and having the courage to walk through the pain it takes to do so. as for you and hubby, the love will always be there hon, it has just changed form. nothing important is black or white. you can create your own shade somewhere in the middle. well take care and enjoy your new freedom as you embark on yet another journey.
hugs,
chris
ps,
hey oc, i tried to post this on the new blu blog but it wouldnt take it. is there a glitch?