On Comments

I removed my first comment from my blog today.

In the reading of my last post, "Anonymous" put a comment on my blog basically saying that I sounded "co-dependant." I'm not sure why this bothered me so much. I guess because I have been through so many years of Al-Anon, I know I am being co-dependant. I grew up in a co-dependant home, and could probably write a book on the subject.

I have been trying to get my head around this for months, while I appreciate comments; in fact, I love them, and get some of my greatest support and insight from them, this one felt like an attack. I looked at it for quite awhile, and then decided to delete it. I don't want to look at it. This is not because I am in denial.

Obviously, I am going through a very hard time in my life. I think that anyone who has been reading my blog knows this. I also feel that I am very self aware. I know I have been living in an atmosphere that is not great for me. That being said, I am trying to work my way out of it, in the only way I know how.

I emailed a blog friend this week, about a few things I have been feeling in regards to my blog, and I think for now, I am electing to moderate comments, and not allow anonymous comments.

Peace,

OC

My Blog

I've messed it up terribly, please bare with me. I really want a snazzy new layout, and am having a horrible time getting it set up. All kinds of blogger errors last night..yikes. Anyway, I wanted to let everyone know, this is not the way it is going to stay, but it's going to stay like this until I figure out how to fix it...

Peace,
OC